This is not another tech change. Not another reskilling wave. Not another "embrace uncertainty" keynote.
The real casualties of AI disruption are not at the top. They are the specialist whose expertise is being automated. The manager whose judgment is being replaced by a model. The team member whose sense of purpose is quietly evaporating. These people are not resisting change. They are experiencing something closer to identity collapse.
Most leaders can't hold it — not because they don't care, but because they are running their own quiet dissonance. The leader who built their identity on giving people meaningful work is now being asked to make decisions that contradict that. That fracture leaks. It shows up most visibly in the meeting room. And the people whose roles are disappearing can feel exactly how well their leader is holding it.